Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Four laptops, one couch

October 9th, 2008 · No Comments

In addition to the NY Times coverage of Poly Pride, there was also an article in the NY Post. Kink.com is now hosting Andrew Blake’s Contempt. Tilda waits for it. I also love the anticipation. And here’s why I use maximum security handcuffs. This is I where I live. Go see my review of the […]

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Take back your mink

October 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I am happy to see the NYC prodoms fighting back. I hope that their PAC can change the laws. So romantic. I love their stories. Glenn Greenwald talks about the Max Headroom verdict and contrasts it to the Bush administrations definitions of torture. Ahren Wolf has a selection of Dark Odyssey Summer Camp ’08 photos […]

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Happy Poly Pride!

October 5th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Hooray! I am Winner #1 in Violet Blue’s Sex + Advertising Contest. Wow! The NY Times has a great fashion spread about lolitas. The clothes! The clothes! My story got Fleshbotted! Sir Stephen has been talking about this project for a while and it is finally up and running: The Master/slave Development Center The NY […]

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Wink

October 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

On Saturday, my buddy, Jake, Vice President of NYboL, will competing in the Mr. Eagle NYC contest. Doors open at 9pm contest begins at 10. Contestants judged in 3 categories by 5 judges. The winner takes home a prize package worth $3600 and will represent the Eagle at the Mr. International Leather contest in Chicago […]

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Bank junk

September 26th, 2008 · 1 Comment

On Wednesday I opened up a new bank account at WaMu.  On Thursday, they went under. I’m in California now.

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Workaround

September 24th, 2008 · No Comments

This year, Santa Saturday will move to Asbury Park, NJ. Traditionally, the event has been in New Hope. CineKink NYC is seeking submissions: films and videos, of any length and genre, that explore and celebrate the wide diversity of sexuality: BDSM, leather and fetish, swinging, non-monogamy and polyamory, roleplay and gender bending. Maymay writes the […]

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Hoopla

September 18th, 2008 · No Comments

Jefferson gives us an update about his child custody battle. I love being number one on Jocasta’s Top Ten list of Cheap Camp Thrills. Remember my Ferrari? Hot cars turn women on. Turns me on. Wow! Even Andrew Sullivan is in the Obama camp now! I just spent $2.99 and bought Audacia Ray’s new short […]

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Lipstick

September 10th, 2008 · 1 Comment

The porn world has “gay for pay” actors. Now are we seeing “gay for play” ball-players? The Exxxotica New York convention moves from Secaucus to Edison, NJ in the same space that hosted TES Fest 2006 and Floating World. TES Election results: Parliamentarian: Nayland Arbiter: Lady Velvet Board 2 year terms: Thrash, Goddess Coko, Wes, […]

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Hope for the best (expect the worst)

September 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

My blog is on the list of Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008! Midori’s next Rope Bondage Dojo will be in Kansas City, MO on October 18th and 19th. Like all the others, it will sell out! I never thought of Toy Story this way. Kinky is a documentary about Black Americans into BDSM. Save […]

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500 sheets in a ream

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

The Midwest Teen Sex Show did an episode on Fetishes. Excellent! New York State can continue to recognize same sex marriages from other states. I would like to see these marriage performed here, too. Some of the NYC community is coming together to raise money for a friend who is battling Lymphoma B cancer. The […]

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