Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Cat on a hot tin roof

January 11th, 2009 · No Comments

Check out page 90 of  Hot Spots Magazine to see me at the Leatherwerks party! Unzipped interviews Larry Barat about this year’s MAL. And there’s a couple of cute photos of a some of my NYboL buddies. By the way, I had planned on going to MAL this year, but the hotel rates just were […]

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Dance me to the end of love

January 9th, 2009 · 2 Comments

Fix your life in 2009. ABC News reports on MAL weekend leading into the inauguration. Obama will most likely not attend MAL. CARAS is looking for people to write some brief comments and relate stories of their experience in therapy, around their BDSM sexuality. It’s for their next newsletter article, which will have the theme […]

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Derrick’s Christmas tree

December 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Daddy Derrick has a big teddy bear collection. His beautiful Christmas tree is surrounded by them. And there are others around the house. And he is a big teddy bear himself!

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

I didn’t do it

December 24th, 2008 · No Comments

A game where you throw a shoe at Bush. Glenda is hosting a Women and Trans Play Party at The Crucible during MAL weekend. Burger King does it again with some really cheesy marketing. My boy AJ really wants to be on the TV show, The Biggest Loser. Please go read her personal statement and […]

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Days getting longer now

December 23rd, 2008 · No Comments

DESIRE 2009 registration is open. This kinky women’s event takes place June 12-15th in Palm Springs CA and provides workshops, one-on-one mentoring sessions and around-the-clock play.  They take over an entire resort and it’s clothing optional.  Dungeon equipment is set-up outside for play anytime.  It’s a really great event. Nominations are open for the 2009 […]

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Snow to snow

December 20th, 2008 · No Comments

There’s snow in NYC and other northern climes. I am even getting photos sent to me from my Seattle friends and their freakish snow. Even Ft Lauderdale is getting into the act with a snow covered front yard.

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Tags: travel

People are talking

December 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Anita Wagner talks about how NCSF helped the Folsom Street Fair. Eric Leven talks about the Ali Forney Center. It’s a small charity that does a lot of big work. They need help right now. Donate if you can. Rachel Kramer Bussel talks about Christmas cookie bukkake! Wild! Audacia Ray talks about The International Day […]

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Spite Zero

December 12th, 2008 · No Comments

Tis the season for holiday parties and grab bags. I went to two of them this year: one at Pleasure Salon and another at TES. For both grab bags, I put in For Your Nymphomation’s 5-incher toy case and filled them with condoms, lube, clamps and a 6 foot length of paracord. cocobuttr found this […]

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Talking in my sleep

December 9th, 2008 · No Comments

People For the American Way has a petition to dump DOMA. Sign it here. My friend, Sarah Sloane, is running for IMsL. Her first fundraiser will be held January 24 at The Crucible. There’s been a bit of a shake-up at IML. Bill Stadt has resigned and R.J. Chaffin is taking his place. I’ve met […]

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Content happens retrospectively

December 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

The Daily News calls Nayland Blake’s show “wacky.” The opening is today at 6pm! Babeland is giving10% Off your order between now and Wednesday, 12/3. Enter the coupon code “secret” during checkout. Free shipping for orders $50 or more. For orders $70 or more they’ll give you a Free Babeland Odyssey Tickler , while supplies […]

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