Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Presence, connection and erotic intimacy are most important for Great Sex. Bear City is a movie seeking background extras for a gay romantic comedy set in the NYC Bear scene. Boymeat writes about Jack. Lovefest IV was reviewed by the Huffington Post. You can download the AIDS Committee of Toronto’s lastet BDSM/Safer Kinky Sex booklet […]

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I would love to have a Hello Kitty pink taser, even though it’s only 50,000 volts. Dressing For Pleasure’s dungeon has been shut down due to a zoning violation.  Reports by ABC and  Fox. Caption this! Unfortunately I was unable to attend the second KinkForAll in NYC, but I am enjoying some of the presentations […]

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Violet Blue has interviewed my friend, Rose White, who is opening Wicked Grounds, a kinky coffee shop in the SOMA area of San Francisco. I can’t wait to visit. I am disappointed with the nomination process for the Sexiest Bloggers of 2009 list at Between My Sheets.  I tried nominating several times but the commenting […]

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If I were on Twitter, I might have posted this today: In the past, most of my spam was about bigger harder cock. Lately, most of it is about buying a watch, Acai berry or getting a degree. I have not used my air conditioner yet this year. I have lost 28 pounds. Perhaps it’s […]

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David Steinberg writes about getting stopped by airport security for his whip and handles the whole situation with aplomb. A very nice little review of the Metal Bondage workshop that Boymeat and I gave at Thunder. Very good article and video about polyamory in Milwaukee. Naked Cowboy is running for mayor of NYC. I definitely […]

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Do you like hot butch, masculine, androgynous, genderqueer, transmasculine, studs, AGs, dykes, and queers? I do! Betty Bowers Explains Traditional Marriage to Everyone Else. The Village Voice has a Folsom Street East slide show. The DC boys of Leather have started a new web site which explores the unique complexities of identity in the BDSM/Leather […]

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My friend, MetalBondNYC, wrote about the final meeting of GMSMA. Leather Archives & Museum posted a great little video from IML 2000. I loved IML back in the days when it was at the Congress Hotel. Mudcub is a great muppet man! Obama’s plan for gay rights. Leather Leadership Conference re-elected Warren Williams and Stephanie […]

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I had fun at the party… and my fruit salad was yummy.

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KinkForAll has a new website. Very user-friendly. Be sure to check out the resource page. Audacia Ray is teaching a Human Sexuality course at Rutgers. Her syllabus is on line and it rocks! I wish I had had her as my teacher back when I took Human Sexuality in college. Viviane has the round-up of […]

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Wild orgy leave your home a mess? Here’s how to clean up. I signed the Petition for the Just Treatment of Transgender people in NYPD custody. Who has better sex? Democrats or Republicans? I have two friends who are Republicans and they are pretty good at sex, but I also know that their best sex […]

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