Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Birthday Recap

February 21st, 2008 · 2 Comments

photo by irishlass5383 I celebrated my birthday with a load of friends for Korean BBQ at NY Kom Tang Soot Bul Kal Bi. Very yummy and sharing food is a lot of fun! Afterwards, we went to Pinkberry (my first time). I got some great presents and, in light of my recent computer woes, was […]

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It’s National Condom Week

February 19th, 2008 · No Comments

Advocates For Youth There are only about 2000 pandas in the world. In order to inspire them to have sex, zookeepers are playing panda porn for them during mating season. The pandas still don’t seem to get in the mood. NYC Condoms now have a new design and a new slogan: Get some! If you […]

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Ahead of the curve, behind the 8-ball

February 18th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Princess Kali and her doggy at Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2007 Photo by Ahren Wolf – see his new website here. Perhaps this is what all those submissives who yearn to be trained are looking for. The Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals has overturned the Texas statute that made it a crime to “promote or […]

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Another excuse to eat chocolate

February 14th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Dylan Edwards My new computer shipped yesterday and should be delivered on February 14th! I am very excited about this. Jocasta does a step-by-step photographic rope tutorial for a strap-on. Save the date! TES Fest 08 will take place the weekend of July 4th in New Jersey!

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Sperm, S’Mac, Beards, Bondage and Bungholes

February 6th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Men are no longer needed for procreation. They have become obsolete. Who needs them any more? Um, well, I think they are quaint and would keep a few around anyway. Just for my amusement. I no longer have to schlep down to the Lower East Side for my S’Mac fix. Tonight I went to Pinch […]

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Once there was a way

February 3rd, 2008 · 1 Comment

In case you want to go out on Monday nights, The Spike is back.Lots of neat pictures on the website. Wendy got some ideas from my CBT class.This article explains why I was bottoming so much more after my big breakup. Thor has a great review on Nayland Blake’s opening. It was simply wonderful! It […]

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Complements

January 31st, 2008 · No Comments

Those design bears again. I wonder who does their PR. The service for my mother is tomorrow and I am grateful that some of my close friends will be attending. I am taking care of myself in some classic ways. I split a pint of Ben & Jerry’s Coffee Heath Bar Crunch ice cream with […]

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Getting stronger all the time

January 20th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Photo by Viviane of all the bloggers at January’s In The Flesh Reading.(l to r: Dashiell Bennett (Fleshbot), Jen Dziura (jenisfamous.com) , Martha Burzynski (Alice Ayers), Nichelle Stephens (nichellenewsletter.typepad.com),Rachel Kramer Bussel, Allison Bojarski (crossfitnyc.com), Lolita Wolf (lolitawolf.blogspot.com), and T.A. Hines (Funky Brown Chick). The ACLU has filed an amicus brief on behalf of Larry Craig […]

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Rushed

January 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Thor took this photo of me at the New Museum on Thursday night. His review and more photos here. See Boymeat’s fabulous Rio Grande Leather keynote speech in the current Leather Archives & Museum newsletter. An article about fire play and Seattle’s Wet Spot. Viviane reviewed the Flea (with photos). And The Providence Journal reviewed […]

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You’re soaking in it

January 11th, 2008 · No Comments

Bear and me. Photo by Thor. Another one here. NYC is not rated as one of Americas most lustful cities according to a study by Forbes. But the study uses condom purchasing to measure their statistics. I know my own condom purchasing has plummeted because a) I get a lot of free condoms at events […]

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