Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

It’s October and that means that it’s the two year anniversary of hooking up with my fuckbuddy, Don Quixote. It’s not the kind of occasion that we’ll celebrate. It’s not that kind of relationship. But it is a milestone for me to pause and review the relationship.
In a nutshell, I am having [...]

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Check out Franklin Deveaux’s Poly Glossary. I still can’t find the word I’m looking for. May havbe to make one up.
Lumpo tries to make sculptures with balloons and fails miserably. This guy is amazing. Maybe Lumpo can learn from him.
Award-winning filmmaker Tony Comstock is looking for women age 36-48 wanted for [...]

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Don Quixote and I are food shopping and sharing a cart.
At the checkout, I pull out all my stuff and begin to load it all on the conveyor belt.
“Are you together?,” the young clerk asks.
I am quick to retort, “No!”
DQ quips, “We just met. Here.”
“Trader Joes is better than OKCupid,” I add.
The [...]

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Downstairs at Happy Ending

I went to see Last Tango in Paris this past week. Mostly, people focus on the sex and the age difference. But forget that. I am not interested in that right now. It’s how they had this relationship where they did not talk about their past or their [...]

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Inopportune: Stage One by Cai Guo-Qiang
I am trying to keep this relationship with Don Quixote in that “Fuckbuddy” mode. It’s a lot of fun, it’s sexy and it’s easy. I don’t want or need it to “go anywhere.” I just want to enjoy. And I am having so much fun.
I [...]

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So, I have this fetish. Maybe fetish is the wrong word for it. But there’s this thing that really gets me turned on. It’s denim. Especially Daisy Dukes. Little denim cut-offs that are so short that you can see a guy’s balls peeking out through the [...]

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Kylie and Avi Scott on FuckingMachine.com

It’s 3am and we have just gotten home from a party. We had a hot time, but I had not come and I was still yearning for a big orgasm.
Don Quixote is naked and flopped on the bed. I know this scenario all to well. [...]

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Chris Hall and Elizabeth Wood , founders of Sex in the Public Square,with Rachel Kramer Bussel.
photo by Viviane
See more photos of the evening here.
I went to the release party for Sex in the Public Square on Friday night. It was teeming with NYC’s sex-blogerati. Had a great time [...]

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It was one of those big sprawling suburban supermarkets. I remember how my mother would love to take me food shopping when she visited me at college. She would swoon over the big selection and the wide aisles. We didn’t have supermarkets like that in the city. Still don’t.
Anyway, Don Quixote [...]

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You can be very careful about picking your poly partners, but there’s nothing you can do about the poly partners that they pick. Sometimes you totally luck out with people like Viviane, Madeline or Atreyu. Other times, it is just a little bit of a challenge.
So, here’s another exercise [...]

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