Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Nothing but blue skies from now on

August 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

Don Quixote went to Target and bought sheets. “New sheets for the Princess.” He ripped open the packaging and I helped him put them on the bed. The sheets are sky blue. Not like a Titian sky blue or a Maxfield Parrish sky blue. More like a plain old sunny day in the country sky […]

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Me and my feet

July 12th, 2007 · No Comments

I know about foot fetishes. I’ve even been to classes about them, classes taught by foot fetishists. I even know foot fetishists. Gee, Boymeat’s a foot guy. According to him, I do not have good feet. What does that mean? I don’t have good feet? He has never really gone into specifics why my feet […]

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Roundup of my life

July 8th, 2007 · No Comments

Photo by Viviane There were nine of us who went to see the Richard Serra exhibit at MOMA. I don’t usually like to go to museums in a big group but Serra’s big pieces lend themselves to a large group where we could wander in and around them and play peek-a-boo with each other. Afterwards, […]

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Rubbernecking

July 6th, 2007 · No Comments

We wanted to see Fortryll in the show and we were running a little late. But we had needed some quiet time after dinner. There’s always so much going on at Leather Retreat that you have to pace yourself or else you will melt down. He wanted to dress up. We had each both brought […]

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You can read it in the Sunday paper

June 28th, 2007 · No Comments

This year’s Flamingo Times rocked. It was funny. People talked about it. They rushed to see it every morning because they wanted their morning laugh. The publisher was very happy with the results. I was pleased because I had recommended the new editor-in-chief for the job. I had a “special” subscription to the paper. Special, […]

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Game Type B

May 28th, 2007 · 1 Comment

As an educator, people ask me stuff all the time. Like, “How long can I keep someone tied up?” The answer to this and to 80% of all other question is “It depends.” Don Quixote was tied face down and spread eagle on the bed. His balls were stretched down low. I rolled off of […]

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No expectations

May 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

“I’m glad that I passed the review,” said Don Quixote.I laughed, “Well, in six months there’s going be one-year review.”“Uh-oh…”I laughed some more. But really this review is more about me than him. I made all these lifestyle changes and I need to step back and look at it and see if it is working […]

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Boys stink

April 2nd, 2007 · No Comments

Everyone knows that all boys stink and some of them are more smelly than others. It’s just a fact of life. I happen to like smelly boys. Not all smelly boys. There’s a fine line between bad smelly and good smelly. And people can often disagree where that line is. It’s a matter of taste. […]

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Atreyu

March 23rd, 2007 · No Comments

Atreyu was in town to visit Don Quixote. We were both aware of each other’s relationship with DQ and we had met once at a party a few months ago. DQ suggested that we try a threesome and Atreyu and I both agreed to give it a go. We began in the living room and […]

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Why I am having more sex these days

March 11th, 2007 · No Comments

At one time in my life I did a lot of casual sex, pick up sex. This was before I got into SM. I was exploring and searching for something, but I did not know what. All that casual sex got a bit boring after a while. And I wasn’t finding what I needed. I […]

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