Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Only around the edges, dear

April 19th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Don Quixote said to me the other night that this would be our third Leather Retreat together. I didn’t say much in return, but it did get me thinking. This thing with DQ has turned into a real relationship or something. I have two things to say about that: Yikes! I’m really having a lot […]

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Ball Weight and Suspension

April 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Last Sunday, Don Quixote hosted a gathering at his place.  Underneath his clothes, he wore the new Stainless Steel Ball Weight for me.  On the way there, I told DQ’s best friend that he would be wearing the Ball Weight. When we arrived, DQ slipped me the key, which officially ceded control to me.  As […]

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Toy Review: Stainless Steel Ball Weights

March 28th, 2009 · No Comments

You’ve heard about financial domination, right?  Well, I have a financial dominant.  It’s Mr. S.  Whenever I am in San Francisco, I can not stay away from the shop and I always spend money there. So, of course, I went to Mr. S with Don Quixote.  I’ve had my eye on their Stainless Steel Ball Weights for a […]

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Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy. DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?” “Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.” We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went […]

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At his house

November 17th, 2008 · 19 Comments

Bobbi Starr on fuckingmachines.com “Get naked and then put some of these candles around the living room and light them.” “How many is some?” I asked  If Don Quixote was giving me orders, I needed him to be specific. “Five,” he answered as he left the room. I quickly set out the candles and grabbed […]

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Great toy to use on a cock

November 10th, 2008 · 11 Comments

This is what it looks like when turned inside out. Different sources have the same toy but each calls it different name. Basically it is a masturbation sleeve made of blue elastomer. I got one of these and used it on Don Quixote. First I added some water-based lube and then slipped it on his […]

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Jellybean

October 14th, 2008 · No Comments

It’s October and that means that it’s the two year anniversary of hooking up with my fuckbuddy, Don Quixote. It’s not the kind of occasion that we’ll celebrate. It’s not that kind of relationship. But it is a milestone for me to pause and review the relationship. In a nutshell, I am having a great […]

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Don’t Slam The Door

September 8th, 2008 · 23 Comments

I’m preparing for Dark Odyssey Summer Camp. Whoo hoo! Camp is sold out. Oink Cabin will be very crowded this year with a great bunch of people. We are not a wild party cabin, nor are we a quiet cabin, but my cabinmates are conscientious of the other people in the cabin. Oink only has […]

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Raggedy Ann

August 28th, 2008 · No Comments

How can you tell when somebody really really likes you? There are many ways. But this Raggedy Ann doll is one sure thing. It was custom made especially for me. See my name is embroidered on her apron? And the apron fabric is dotted swiss. Her hair is real wool. All the materials are top-notch. […]

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Priming The Pump

August 8th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Devi Emerson on fuckingmachines.com Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned. I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring. “I don’t know. What did you […]

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