Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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DQ Earns a Pass from Chastity

January 7th, 2012 · Comments Off

Don Quixote was locked up in a chastity device. It had been over a week. He needed to get out. He had a date with these two guys. A big overnight date with lots of bondage and sex. Sometimes he has dates and I don’t let him out of the chastity like here and here. His [...]

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The Collar of Complication

August 28th, 2011 · 1 Comment

  Back in July I wrote about the new collar for Don Quixote which we have dubbed “The Collar of Complication.” I’ve wanted to post a clean version of it. It’s made of rings that are gunmetal in color, except for one ring that is gold. Most people don’t notice the “mistake,” but we know it’s [...]

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The New Collar

July 7th, 2011 · 3 Comments

Don Quixote is wearing my collar. It’s not a slave collar. Nope! And it’s not a training collar. That’s not right either. It certainly ain’t the collar of consideration. Huh! And it sure as hell is not a collar of protection. Puh-lease! We finally agreed that this is the collar of complication. And that seems [...]

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More Adventures in Chastity

June 21st, 2011 · Comments Off

It was a week before we were going to leave for Dark Odyssey Fusion. I called Don Quixote to discuss bedding and stuff. And then I sprung it on him, “I think you should be in the chastity device.” There was a pause. “Really? Now? Until Fusion?” He was incredulous. “Yes!” He began to explain [...]

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My Big Birthday Orgasm

February 24th, 2011 · Comments Off

The ingredients for my big birthday orgasm: Medium Njoy Pure Plug – $69.95 Black Dragon Latex Gloves – $20.00 Sliquid Organics Natural – $13.00 Acuvibe HT-1220 Mini Vibrator – $34.95 My lover’s fingers and hands – Priceless

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Manual Dexterity

January 29th, 2011 · Comments Off

It was a Sunday, I locked Don Quixote into the chastity device. We would not see each other again until Friday. He didn’t complain. He knew that I had the right to control him in that way. He did, however, mention that he had a date. One of those kinds of dates. A date for [...]

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Chastity Device – Day Six

September 2nd, 2010 · Comments Off

So, last night I was watching this video of this guy talking about how he went in to the Mr. S store in San Francisco and got lucky with one of the salesmen there. Well, it got me thinking that here I am working in the premiere fetish store in NYC and I just do [...]

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My Big Pink Robot

August 31st, 2010 · 1 Comment

“I want to be an object at some point during the weekend.” Don Quixote told me. An object? I thought about that. The first thing that popped into my head was a footstool. That’s classic. But it is also boring. I thought about what kind of object I really wanted and an idea came to [...]

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Chastity and the ensuing Punishment

May 24th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Don Quixote acquired a new chastity device. The last one had not worked so well. The new one was The Boy Trainer Silicone Cock Cage from Mr. S. It had some nice reviews, I liked the way it looked and I was looking forward to trying it out. We decided to experiment one evening at [...]

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The Competition

March 15th, 2010 · Comments Off

When Don Quixote found out that The Poacher would be at the party, he asked me if we could try to set up a date for the two of them to bottom to Mrs. Poacher and me.  I agreed and a time was set. I sat down with Mrs. Poacher and we agreed to a [...]

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