Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Going to Thunder!

July 19th, 2007 · No Comments

Boymeat and I leave early Friday morning for Thunder. We get back Monday night. No email. No blogging.

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

Me and my feet

July 12th, 2007 · No Comments

I know about foot fetishes. I’ve even been to classes about them, classes taught by foot fetishists. I even know foot fetishists. Gee, Boymeat’s a foot guy. According to him, I do not have good feet. What does that mean? I don’t have good feet? He has never really gone into specifics why my feet […]

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Floggings, food and other miscellaneous stuff

June 28th, 2007 · No Comments

A public flogging at Folsom Street East. I had no idea this was being taped. Wendy talks about the flogging I gave her at Jefferson’s last orgy. Will Katz’s close? Oh, no! So, walking home last night I noticed a new yellow awning on 85th Street: Dean’s Pizzaria. A little research turns up a review […]

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Kinko De Mayo

May 7th, 2007 · No Comments

Of course it was a great weekend at SMARTfest in Cleveland, Ohio, because I traveled with a guarantee: my Julia. Julia is always a great travel partner. The playspace was really nice warehouse with huge wooden structural beams. On Friday night we played. Julia set up a ring to a beam with a little piece […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews

Camp on my brain

April 27th, 2007 · No Comments

Camp! Camp! Camp! I totally have Leather Retreat on my brain these days. I am so excited! I know it’s not until the end of June but they let me be in charge of programming so I have been working real hard on making that happen. It’s the 10th anniversary so my goal was to […]

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A memory of Boymeat

March 5th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Boymeat and I attended the first Master/slave Conference in July 2004 in DC at the Marriott Residence Inn Thomas Circle. Attendance was much larger than anticipated and workshop space was limited. Master Taino came up with the idea of doing some smaller classes in actual standard hotel rooms. He wanted these classes to be SM […]

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New Year’s Eve Angst

January 5th, 2007 · No Comments

Almost everybody suffers through the holidays. Family strife, money woes, shopping, cooking and baking, sending out cards. It’s just too much all at the same time. And everybody commiserates about it. But for some of my friends, the misery of the Christmas season can’t hold a candle to the absolute angst of New Year’s Eve. […]

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Tags: Relationships

Santa and The Good Kids

December 24th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Boymeat and I were co-topping a girl in the dungeon at BR2006. We were happy and playing together nicely. This girl was happy getting the shit caned out of her. The Dungeon Monitors were happy that we were not breaking the rules or doing anything crazy. Everything was just perfect. Well, out of the corner […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Spanking

First fuck

November 16th, 2006 · No Comments

“You need to leave. Now.” If I spoke that way to any other guest, it might be rude, but it was Boymeat, so it was okay. As soon as the door shut, Don Quixote grabbed me and started spanking me. We stumbled back into the living room where the spanking continued. “This has to come […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report · Sex · Spanking

Dude

October 12th, 2006 · 1 Comment

I had my first close encounter with Dude at one of those parties hosted by close friends. A carefully chosen guest list. Favorite foods. Fun lighting. Some rules to make it safe for everybody. Mood music. A lot of puppy piles and touching. Very comfortable. Except for Dude. “Oooo! I am touching Lolita. I can’t […]

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