Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Rushed

January 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Thor took this photo of me at the New Museum on Thursday night. His review and more photos here. See Boymeat’s fabulous Rio Grande Leather keynote speech in the current Leather Archives & Museum newsletter. An article about fire play and Seattle’s Wet Spot. Viviane reviewed the Flea (with photos). And The Providence Journal reviewed […]

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The Captive Princess

January 9th, 2008 · 6 Comments

Andy San Dimas, AnnaBelle Lee and Claire Adams on DeviceBondage.com It was New Year’s Eve. Well, actually it was early New Year’s Day and we had just gone to bed. Don Quixote was fucking me with his fingers and talking dirty to me. “I’m going to install a steel ring in the Secret Room.” DQ […]

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Hot Chocolate

December 18th, 2007 · 9 Comments

Claire Adams and Sarah Blake on whippedass.com I was not the only one at the TES party at Paddles who thought my date was hot. All sorts of guys were tripping over themselves trying to talk to her. I found most of it amusing. But two of them stood out as being huge assholes. I […]

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Chocolate Gay

November 29th, 2007 · No Comments

Photo by Boymeat – More here. Paksen came to visit for a few days. On the last night, Boymeat and I took him to Lucky Cheng’s. The balloon guy made Paksen a headdress of a chick with a dick and a whip. And he competed in the show, prancing down the catwalk, striking a pose […]

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Vajayjay

October 30th, 2007 · No Comments

Boymeat is my favorite tuba player. Well, he used to be. Now I like this flaming tuba player! I got my first fan mail from someone who bought my Spanking book! I haven’t written back yet… I’m glad that NYC has dropped the idea of that stupid photography law. Jocasta over at Venus Ropes describes […]

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That would never happen at a TES party

October 26th, 2007 · No Comments

Last night, a group of us went to see Hurt So Good. I had originally seen the play a year ago and it was only okay. I went to see it again because I am in it! Well, a recording of my voice is in it and my bio is in the program. This performance […]

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There’s good stuff, too.

October 15th, 2007 · 4 Comments

Congratulations to John Weis, Mr East Coast Rubber 2007! JoeMyGod reports on the drama when they gave the sash to the wrong guy. I am back from North Carolina. Highlights from the trip: I had a really hot scene with a woman who may move to NYC soon. Yum yum! Meeting Boymeat‘s buddy, Kathryn. Eating […]

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Sundry on a Monday

September 24th, 2007 · No Comments

Gloria Brame found this great video by Michael Moore about caning in England. And to file away in the Ask For What You Want And You Still May Not Get It file… The hot sexy Amanda Wildfyre thinks the 100 Divas Project is a cute idea, but she has declined to be a part of […]

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"Vrij Veilig" is Dutch for "Safe Sex"

August 7th, 2007 · No Comments

Floating ‘condom’ promotes safe sex People are reading that Harry Potter book pretty quickly. The library has 548 copies and I am now moved up to 357 on the waiting list. Boymeat is teaching Caning at TES tonight (Tuesday). Remember that “I’m a cow” video? Are all cows bottoms?

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Thunder recap

July 25th, 2007 · 2 Comments

Great weekend. The best part was being able to spend quality time with Boymeat. In many ways, it was a weekend about us. While we normally do spend a lot of time together, this was different. In some ways it harkened back to old times. I have a new body mod! A swirly, curly cutting […]

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