Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Male Bondage by Van Darkholme I love this book. The guys are hunky and the rigging is beautiful. I’m excited because Van Darkholme (who is totally hunky in his own right) has been hired by Kink.com as the director for their new male bondage site. I can’t wait to see this!

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HoneyB, “Nick” and me photo by Viviane Last night I met up with Viviane and Ace for some Chinese food and then on to Rachel Kramer Bussel’s In The Flesh reading. We sat together with Tess, Diva, Selina, Twanna and Suzanne. Rachel really organizes a great evening with a bunch of sexy readers and she […]

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Taschen has The Big Penis Book coming out.Amazon is taking pre-orders. It is a companion book to the Big Book of Breasts. Which do you like best? ( surveys)

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Boymeat is my favorite tuba player. Well, he used to be. Now I like this flaming tuba player! I got my first fan mail from someone who bought my Spanking book! I haven’t written back yet… I’m glad that NYC has dropped the idea of that stupid photography law. Jocasta over at Venus Ropes describes […]

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Congratulations to John Weis, Mr East Coast Rubber 2007! JoeMyGod reports on the drama when they gave the sash to the wrong guy. I am back from North Carolina. Highlights from the trip: I had a really hot scene with a woman who may move to NYC soon. Yum yum! Meeting Boymeat‘s buddy, Kathryn. Eating […]

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Michael Rosen has published his fifth photo book, “Vanilla Sex: Explicit Fine Art Photographs,” as a PDF for free download here. “This PDF is a reprise of a 2005 show at the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco. It’s my latest and best work. For me, “vanilla” means the spectrum of our community’s […]

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Midori and Kumi I should get a bunch of these for Easter spanking games at Frolicon. Jefferson discusses the law against sex toys in his home state of Alabama. Pee and poop! Pa, pa, pants man! Jefferson’s got a new blog called Smut Turntable where he spins cool tunes and tell stories. And, yes, he […]

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Darling, Dana DeArmond, Lola, Christina Carter, Lew Rubens on HogTied.com In July 2005 I attended Midori’s Rope Dojo in Washington, DC. Here’s what I wrote about it back then: … Wow! Sixteen full hours of rope education spread over two days. Midori is a great teacher who explains everything fully as she demonstrates and then […]

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This is one of my favorite fiction books. Published in 2002, I consider it a classic. It’s so much fun to read a book where the action takes place in the NYC gay leather scene. david stein knows this scene well – he was the co-founder of GMSMA back in 1981 and he’s lived it. […]

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Floating ‘condom’ promotes safe sex People are reading that Harry Potter book pretty quickly. The library has 548 copies and I am now moved up to 357 on the waiting list. Boymeat is teaching Caning at TES tonight (Tuesday). Remember that “I’m a cow” video? Are all cows bottoms?

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