Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Rope and Spanking

May 17th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Yin photo be Michele Serchuk Yin came to Lesbian Sex Mafia last night to teach us rope bondage. The class was packed. There must have been like 75 people there. It was an overwhelming crowd for hands-on. Many more than anybody expected, but Yin taught graciously and I think everybody came away with a new […]

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Clouds in my coffee

April 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

Steamed Pork & Chive Dumplings at The Dumpling House photo by Viviane A really good post about Leather Leadership Conference. Monk very funny. Here’s an excellent video showing how to make bondage points in a hotel room. I met Tacit face-to-face at Frolicon. I have been following him on the net for years under several […]

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Hunky men in rope

April 19th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Male Bondage by Van Darkholme I love this book. The guys are hunky and the rigging is beautiful. I’m excited because Van Darkholme (who is totally hunky in his own right) has been hired by Kink.com as the director for their new male bondage site. I can’t wait to see this!

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Sex Bloggers Tea

April 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Viviane hosted a tea party for the NYC Sex Bloggers. It is always a fun gathering where we get to go face-to-face with people whom we know intimately through the web. It’s a pot luck. We had tip-top service from both Sissy Stephanie and Axe. Sissy Stephanie serving the Florentine appetizers I made I brought […]

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Rogueboi in the Dungeon

April 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Nyobi Khan and Wolf Hudson on tsseduction.com Rogueboi showed up at Frolicon and we flirted a bit during the day. He wanted to play, but I wasn’t going to be holding my breath. So, it was a pleasant surprise when he later found me in the dungeon ready to play. I had him strip down […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report

My Nap Strategy

April 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Brian Lehrer at WNYC has this group project going on about Nap Strategies. Well, I have my own kinky nap story to tell. It’s sort of a true confession. I was at an event with a friend. It was a Sunday, I was tired, but we had given up our room so I had nowhere […]

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Let’s break out the booze and have a ball

April 4th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Men’s Health has an article on how to last longer during sex. And the article pissed me off. Sex is not just thrusting a dick in a vagina until the dick spurts. Is that all there is? It’s certainly not good sex (for me). Try using your fingers and your mouth. Or a toy like […]

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Quiet Weekend

March 17th, 2008 · No Comments

Some pretty rope from today’s threesome I always want to learn more about orgasms. Whine, whine, whine! I am looking at the workshop schedule for Kinkfest in Portland and the class that interests me most is “High Security Rope Bondage” with Max. Unfortunately, it is scheduled at the same time that I am teaching. Why […]

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4th and Final

March 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I was not at all lucky at last night’s Porno Bingo. The other day I went walking along Atlantic Avenue in Brooklyn. I hadn’t been there in many years, and like much of the city, it had changed drastically and I hate it. Now, Urban Outfitters is opening there today. [Groan] The fuckers at United […]

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Three bottoms

March 6th, 2008 · No Comments

In 2005, I was gifted with a camera. I took some photos and filled it up. Then did nothing with it. Now I have finally installed the software and downloaded the photos. I look forward to taking pictures again. In the meantime, here are some photos of play that I did during that period. The […]

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