Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Bondage – Wednesday – NYC

July 21st, 2008 · No Comments

Daniel and Bobbi Starr on captivemale.com The TES Bondage Group meets this Wednesday July 23 and is pleased to present: “Anatomy of a Scene” with Don Edwards Whether your bondage serves as a means to an end or as an end in itself, we’ll explore the formal structures of effective scenes. From foreplay and warm-up […]

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TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). The hotel staff […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews · Relationships · Scene Report

Shiny flutter

July 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

One of my favorite blog’s is Ruff’s Stuff. He’s one of the people I had read but never met. But then I saw him at Folsom Street East and ran up to him and introduced myself. He’s very friendly. He posted a photo of us on his blog. I am a proud slutty New Yorker […]

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Selling raffles is fun!

June 21st, 2008 · No Comments

LPM 2003 (photo Barbara Nitke) This rain-out at Shea reminds me of the year we had a big rain at camp and they made a big slip-and-slide. I enjoyed watching Sofia playing out at Portland Kinkfest. In addition to be a bondage expert, she is also an aerialist and likes to climb on her bottoms […]

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Puffy Leather Hood

June 18th, 2008 · 30 Comments

I slipped my new Mr S Puffy Leather Hood on and laced myself into it. It’s got a locking post but I did not bother locking it on. It was tight, yet comfortable with lots of padding. My head was engulfed in the soft leather and I could smell the newness of it. I had […]

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Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar.

June 14th, 2008 · No Comments

Tango magazine did a great video interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel about her erotic writing. Her book, Dirty Girls, just went to a second printing. IML raised $55,000 for the Leather Archives & Museum. Support for the LA&M was raised through contributions from visitors to the Leather Market, memberships to the LA&M, a two night […]

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Just because it’s June, June, June

June 6th, 2008 · No Comments

Single baby boomers are enjoying better sex, are open to threesomes and are not looking to get married, according to a new poll. I just found an old Newslink article online which reviewed a panel I was on at GMSMA on Orifice Restraints. Shibaricon was also happening in Chicago during IML. I never made it […]

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Good after bad

June 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Van Darkholme’s BondageGods test shoot is up at Kink On Demand. Next time I’m looking to eat Indian in the Village, I am going to try Sangam. Looks really good and affordable. Let’s not go back to the days before Roe V Wade. Chinese man sticks 2008 needles in his head to mark Beijing Olympic […]

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NYC – Wednesday 5/28 – Rope Bondage

May 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Wednesday, May 28 TES Bondage SIG presents: “Little Ropes: Creative Ideas on Using Smaller Size Rope” with Jocasta What to do with thinner rope? 4mm hemp rope or 1/8″ solid braid nylon rope will be used in a variety of ways. Hair ties, arm gauntlets, hand and foot bondage, cbt, and decorative touches on breast […]

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My IMsL 2008 Trip – Part 6

May 19th, 2008 · No Comments

J bought me at the IMsL Celebrity Auction for $200. We agreed to play late on Friday night. So, Daddy and I played with Lily first. Daddy is keen on learning rope from me, so I have been teaching her a bit as we go along. We did a partial suspension. A lot of people […]

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