Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: December 17-23

December 17th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, December 17 Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, December 18 The Baroness‘ Annual Holiday Cocktail Party DSF: “REPENT BDSM play Party!” Lesbian Sex Mafia Women and Trans Holiday Social Switch party Saturday, December 19 Brooklyn Leather Munch TES Spanking Group Seasons Beatings with Michael from Paddles NYC TNG Saturday Party Night TES Novice Excursion TES […]

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New Year’s Eve in Los Angeles

December 13th, 2009 · No Comments

The men from West Coast Rubber and Avatar are throwing a special all genders play party for NYE.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: December 10-16

December 10th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, December 10 NYC TNG Thursday Party Night Impact party Friday, December 11 DSF: “Enema Play and Health benefits” w/ Dr. Mark, AKA StrictDr Saturday, December 12 NYboL XMAS Party Sunday, December 13 ONYX New York: DECK the BALLS III New York Bondage Club Monday, December 14 CV: “Story Telling” w/ Sassafras Lowrey Tuesday, December […]

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Find Lolita – December 2009 and beyond

December 7th, 2009 · No Comments

December 7 – NYC Conversio Virium December 15 – NYC TES January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather Conference January 28 – online class Power Play Academy: How to be a Greedy Pig–Let Me Count the Ways February 5-6, Columbus, OH Winter Wickedness February 15 – online class Power Play Academy: The Greedy Pig Deals […]

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Wicked Grounds – the tables

December 7th, 2009 · No Comments

I recently wrote about Wicked Grounds, the San Francisco kinky coffee shop. I loved the tables at the shop.  Each one was an art project made with love by various volunteers.  Some of rthem were obstructed when I visited because they had just opened and were gearing up for Folsom weekend. Ryan’s table Mollena’s table

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: December 2-9

December 3rd, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, December 3 The Baroness’ Holiday Fetish Retinue party Friday, December 4 DSF: “The Kinky Female Genitalia – From Cruising to Female Ejaculation” w/ Danielle dv8 Strictly Spanking NY party NYC Munch Saturday, December 5 NYC TNG Meeting ClubFEM NYC Party Sunday, December 6 MAsT Metro NY: Holiday Social and Elections New York Bondage Club […]

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e[lust] #2

December 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in the next edition? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the […]

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Wicked Grounds

December 1st, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 26 – Dec 2

November 26th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Thursday, November 26 Happy Thanksgiving! Friday, November 27 DSF: “Spanksgiving BDSM Party” Stimulate party Paradise Lost party Saturday, November 28 Sunday, November 29 New York Bondage Club Suspension party Monday, November 30 CV: “Cutting and Kink: Transformations of Self-Mutilation into Erotic Play & Body Modification” Tuesday, December 1 TES: ” Flogging” w/ Valentine Wednesday, December […]

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She brought her own toys

November 24th, 2009 · 5 Comments

I had a hot play date on Friday night. When we spoke beforehand to make plans, I had asked her what she liked to do. “Spanking, caning, paddles, floggers.”  She then added, “I have my own toys.” I love that!  Yes, I love those activities, but I really love a playmate who brings her own […]

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