Don Quixote was locked up in a chastity device. It had been over a week. He needed to get out. He had a date with these two guys. A big overnight date with lots of bondage and sex.

Sometimes he has dates and I don’t let him out of the chastity like here and here. His dates are not my problem.  But this time it sounded like a particularly hot date and I felt we could work something out.

“You need to get me off, but really well, and then I’ll let you out for your date,” I told him. And, so, we made a date.

I arrived at his place. The sling was set up. The Hitachi was plugged in and a bunch of favorite toys were laid out. I told him that I wanted him naked and he went off to get undressed while I got comfortable in the sling. He came back naked except for the chastity device and a surprise for me. He wore a dildo gag. How perfect that he was not only gagged and silent but that he also wore a cock for my pleasure.

DQ worked diligently to get me off with the dildo gag, various toys and his dextrous hands. When I was close, I grabbed the Hitachi and was very satisfied with the outcome.

I sent him off to his date and the next day was regaled with hot tales of boy-on-boy action complete with photos.

Monday October 10th is the first installment of Bare Stories, which showcases people telling stories of sex, desire and romance. The topic is First Times. This will also be my first time on stage as a story teller! So please come out and hear me tell my story.

Get details at Bare Stories.

]]> http://www.leatheryenta.com/2011/10/09/bare-stories-my-first-time/feed/ 2 http://www.leatheryenta.com/2011/03/08/question-month-1/ http://www.leatheryenta.com/2011/03/08/question-month-1/#comments Wed, 09 Mar 2011 03:03:34 +0000 Lolita http://www.leatheryenta.com/?p=3134 Q.  What is the best way to store lots of dildos and vibrators of various sizes in limited space? I am trying to figure out if there is a sort of card catalogue thingie so I can put them all in a drawer? Help!

A.  First of all, go through your collection and decide if you need all of them. Definitely get rid of any smelly jelly toys. Many of these contain phthalates which are dangerous. You want a “quality not quantity” collection.

I like to keep my clean dildos in separate baggies. It seems that all my dildos act like dust magnets and it is best to bag them. One baggie per toy is a good idea also because some toys tend to melt together or stain each other. I make sure that the toy is completely dry before putting it in the baggie. I like that baggies are clear so I can easily identify what is in each bag.

I also put my vibrators in baggies. If they use batteries and I don’t use the toy regularly, I take the batteries out. Batteries that are not used for a while leak and ruin toys. I always have extra fresh batteries stored in my refrigerator. If a vibe is rechargeable, then I store it together with its recharger. Remember to recharge it before you want to use it. I have been caught in a sling with a dead vibe and that’s not fun – well, it just not as fun as it could have been.

I keep my favorite most often used sex toys in or on a night table by my bed. The rest I keep in a dresser drawer that has some Drawer Dividers
to make it a bit easier to sort. I do not keep them in one of those sex toy storage cases. That is too unwieldy for me. I do have  a small one that I love, but I only use it to pack toys for a play party.

If you don’t like the idea of a dresser drawer, shoe storage solutions like a Ten-Pocket Canvas Hanging Shoe Bag or an Underbed Shoe Organizer might work for you.

Of course if you have kids, lock them all away in a big cedar chest. Hey!  I meant the toys, not the kids!

March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.

The ingredients for my big birthday orgasm:

• Medium Njoy Pure Plug – $69.95
• Black Dragon Latex Gloves – $20.00
• Sliquid Organics Natural – $13.00
• Acuvibe HT-1220 Mini Vibrator – $34.95
• My lover’s fingers and hands – Priceless

I remember 3rd grade.   I think that is when I learned multiplication and addition.  Thank you, Mrs. Gusten. You were my favorite elementary school teacher.  Shortly after, I used those multiplication/addition skills when I was taught about Pi. Pi = 3.14 and it’s the way to convert diameter from circumference and vice versa.

So, after school I never again used Pi.  Did not need it and never thought about it.  I learned so much useless stuff in school.

But now, having a part -time job at Purple Passion, I finally have found a practical use for Pi.  Dildos!  And cock rings!  I am having so much fun with this job!

I will be teaching at the 2nd Annual Sacred Sexuality Round-Up in Times Square this September 23-26th. Attend in person or you can watch it online!

Enjoy 4-Days of heart-felt lectures, workshops, performances, party events, promotions, and networking with the world’s leading Tantra Teachers and Sacred Sexuality Educators. Over thirty great presenters all gathered into one amazing weekend!

This is the first Sexuality Expo to broadcast live on the Internet from Times Square. The Friday night Women & Power Symposium with a special opening performance by Zahava will be broadcast FREE from 7 to 11pm.

The 4-days kick off with a Thursday night “Club Tantra Lounge” party. Meet the organizers, teachers and gurus and schmooze and dance the night away with other sexy spirits in preparation for the weekend festivities.

Friday evening things get more serious with the “Women and Power Symposium,” an all-women panel open to a co-ed audience exploring the feminine connections between sexual, financial and romantic freedom.

Saturday and Sunday are filled with dozens of lectures, presentations and workshops from our expert presenters (Sheri Winston, Amy Jo Goddard, Kamala Devi, Rachel Cherwitz, Isis Phoenix, et al) covering the spectrum of spiritual sexuality. Everything from transformational breathing, to healing a broken heart, to being in a committed couple and tantric, to sensually satisfying pregnancies and energetic clothes-on sex, and even sacred spanking will be covered.

Saturday night: Don’t miss out on the Triple Goddess Puja, an enlightening social ritual with deep-rooted traditions designed to explore the spiritual side of sensuality and intimacy without ever having to take your clothes off!

Please visit Sacred Sex Roundup for free and pay-per-view options as well as In-Person Tickets too!

These days, everyone can have a dick of their own – or two, or three! But how do you pick one, and what do you do with it once you’ve got it? Come learn how to choose a cock and harness that best suit your body and your purposes. Then we’ll dive into the nitty-gritty of where you can stick it and how to enjoy it – givers and receivers alike. We’ll cover packing (everyday cock-wearing) as well as playing with a variety of techniques and orifices, with a focus on pleasure and safety.

Thursday, August 19, 2010
7 to 9pm at Purple Passion
211 West 20th Street, between 7th and 8th Avenue

$20 (and enjoy a 15% discount on shopping before or after the class)
Class size is limited so prepaying is advised. Our last class was sold out. Don’t be turned away. Reserve your spot at the store: 212-807-0486

Andrea Zanin , a.k.a. Sex Geek, pretty much writes and talks about sex all the time unless she’s eating, sleeping or having it. She lives in Toronto and is an organizer, educator and writer within the queer, polyamory and BDSM/leather communities, as well as being an active trans ally. She frequently speaks about alternative sexuality for universities, colleges, sex shops, community groups and conferences in Canada, the States and internationally. Andrea also writes alternative-sexuality news and commentary for the Montreal Mirror, Xtra! Toronto and Outlooks Magazine, as well as blogging at http://sexgeek.wordpress.com.

She has a background in women’s studies and sexuality studies from Concordia University, and is pursuing an MA in those same fields at York University with a focus on Canadian leatherdyke history. Andrea has judged a number of leather title contests, including GLLA Bootblack 2008, International Ms. Leather 2009 and Mr. Leather Toronto 2010. She co-organizes the annual Canadian leatherdyke weekend An Unholy Harvest, runs a book club called the Leather Bindings Society, and occasionally writes erotic fiction on the side. She can be reached at veryqueer3@yahoo.ca

It’s a new-ish term that I only heard a few years ago.  I think I first heard it from Felice Shays.  I understand it to mean being open and accepting towards all kinds of sex and sexualities.

My background was not so sex-positive.  Sex was never discussed when I was growing up.  When my mother had to tell me about sex, she got a book for me to read from the library and told me to ask her any questions I might have.  She also told me not to discuss this topic with anybody, not even my closest girlfriends.

When I began exploring sex, I did not find people to be very sex positive.  Nobody communicated.  A lot of people were not open to different ideas.  It was not until I got into the scene that I found people who could be open. I then found people who were into all kinds of stuff.

Lately I find the term sex positive as a catch word.  And even in the scene, not everybody really is sex positive.  As I find myself drifting more and more towards the queer communities and younger people doing new things, I am finding more the attitude that I like.

March is question month. You can ask your question and enter my Babeland contest here.

Come and celebrate the awarding of the first Sex-Positive Journalism Awards! The awards will be MCed by Lolita Wolf.

The first 100 attendees will get a gift bag of goodies from the Sexies sponsors. There will also be a silent auction and raffle to support the awards, which will include fabulous prizes including original art by Julio Aguilera, Sophy Naess, and David Steinberg; signed copies of books by winners, judges, and supporters; sex toys; gift certificates for sexy pleasures; and more!

Meet the judges and the winners. Judith Levine will talk about her experiences with media coverage of sexual topics when Harmful to Minors was released. Carol Queen will be there. See a full list of winners, judges and more.

The party will be Saturday October. 4, 6:30-9:30pm, in the downstairs lounge of Splash, 50 W. 17th Street, NYC. $5 cover.

Would you like to volunteer and get in free and be guaranteed a goodie bag? Volunteer shifts are only one hour. Contact Susan Wright at wrightnyc at aol dot com