This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address.

Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an Erotic Dance and Performance workshop at 10pm taught by Coco Monroe. Bump, grind, shimmy and shake! Whether your goal is to learn how to bring a little tease to your current performance technique or into your bedroom, come get a taste of this over-the-top performance art. This workshop will cover a brief history of Burlesque and striptease in the US and, most importantly, how to make the art of tease your own. Bring your make-up, corsets, pasties and questions. Practice makes perfect!

Saturday afternoon at 2pm we go together to the Visionary Arts Museum.

Saturday night 9pm to 3am is more open play plus a Spanking Workshop at 10pm taught by me followed by the annual Strip Tease/Lap Dancing fundraiser for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom which starts at Midnight (please bring cash to tip our dancers – the tips go to NCSF). Anyone can dance in the NCSF Extravaganza – just bring your music on CD or I Pod.

Sunday is more open play from 1pm until 8pm. There will be a potluck brunch (bring a dish to share) followed by a workshop at 3pm on Breaking Skin: Decorating the Body with me. There are so many pretty things we can do! Demos will include making designs with needles and staples, attaching beads and other pretty adornments, making string patterns, making corsets and more.

$75 for the weekend, $30 per day/night. Please bring something to share for our food table. A limited number of work exchange positions are available. Parking is available for only $5 per car per night in the attached parking garage if you arrive between 9pm – 10:30pm on Fri and Sat nights and between 1pm and 3:30pm on Sunday. Street Parking is always available in the neighborhood but please take normal street parking precautions and secure your belongings.

Overnight accommodations are available for $10 – $20 per person per night (sliding scale) – please bring your own towels and sheets – there are lots of pillows and blankets.

RSVP to Glenda.

I competed for the International Little Miss Littles title at Kinky Kollege in Chicago. There were seven contestants and they were all very good. The judges were Hardy Haberman, Master Z Dallas and IML 2010 Tyler McCormick.

The first part of the contest was Modeling. The stage had a long runway and the crowd was overflowing into the hallway (the crowd was estimated at 170). I had some trepidation at first but finally came out in my new pink party dress. My stuffed bear (Bebe) had a matching dress. We paraded and I curtsied at the end of he runway. The audience made me feel good.

The second part of the contest was Talent. My talent was having a perfect tea party. My bear underwent a costume change and wore his leather harness, collar, jock and wrist restraints. I brought him and my Dolly on stage with me. Rita Seagrave is my Dolly. She wore pigtails with big bows, a little white lace shirt and jeans rolled up to reveal striped socks. I set up my tea party, but every time I turned my back, Rita picked her nose. She would not stop. She was very bad. So I spanked her!

The last category was the pop question. This was the most scary because there is no way to prepare for it. My question was, “Can you sing your ABC’s?” I started off great, but soon got mixed up with LA&M and NCSF. Oops!

But somehow the judges voted and I won! Now I am a sash queen!

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009

I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this.

In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published author.  Her new erotic urban fantasy, Confessions of a Demon, is coming out next week. And one of the characters in it is named after and inspired by me!

My version is here.

Thanks, Mo!

Cut to: Saturday night at Shibaricon, the most crowded night of the weekend.  We wandered around looking for a spot to play.  I had an idea about what I wanted to do, but could be flexible depending on what piece of equipment we could obtain.  The only piece not in use in the dungeon was a hanging cage.  We asked a DM if the cage could be removed so that we could use the frame and they very willingly took care of our request.

I took my time tying Mollena.  We weren’t in a rush.  I wanted to savor her while I lay the ropes on her luscious body.  I tied a modified chest harness and tied it to the frame. I bent her over so that she was not too steady on her feet.  I began to spank her.  Slowly and lightly at first.  I knew she liked a warm-up.  I ramped up bit by bit as I could feel her body respond.  She moaned as the spanks became more intense.  It was a good sound.

After I while, I began slamming my whole body into her butt.  I held onto the rope and worked up a violent frenzy.  I was happy that the frame was strong and could take it.  Mo could also take it.  That rocking- slamming motion was what she needed to come.  And she gushed all over my petticoat.

Mo was a bit embarrassed about mussing my frock, but it was no big deal.  It dried quickly and it is handwashable.  She provided me with the best aftercare of all: a gourmet chocolate truffle!

You can see Mollena’s post about the weekend here.

Graydancer
(There was no photography allowed at the event
so this was pulled from my archives.)

While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas list.   You can hear the interview here.

Another big addition to the 100 Divas list is Patricia Johnson!  I got together with her and Mark Michaels at the event and it was a really hot spanking.

DOWF was really fun for me.  I did a lot of play and got to hang out with lots of friends.  Tristan, Colton, Greg and Karri really know how to put together a fabulous event.

DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?”

“Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.”

We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went looking for a good spot for our scene. We found a bedroom. I bent the boy over at the foot of the bed and began to warm him up, first with my hand and then with light taps of the cane. DQ sat watching at the top of the bed with his back against the headboard.

The puppy boy was wearing a cobalt blue jockstrap which framed his beautiful hairy butt, making it a perfect target. He yelped and he growled and he wiggled his butt after the cane strokes landed. His responses were extremely cute.

“Swish” went my cane.

“Arrrrf!” growled the puppy.

DQ asked, “Do you think the puppy would like something to chew on?”

The puppy nodded vigorously and DQ rolled up his pants leg and offered the puppy his meaty calf. The puppy bit down with every hard stroke of the cane.

“Swish” went my cane.

“Arrrrf!” growled the puppy.

“Oooof” groaned DQ.

I was loving the chain reaction.

Then Jason walked into the room. DQ beckoned him over, but Jason hesitated. He watched the chain of pain and was not certain that he wanted to be part of it. But Jason does not easily shy away from DQ, and after a short while, Jason acquiesced and came forward. DQ reached for Jason’s balls and got a good grip on them.

“Swish” went my cane.

“Arrrrf!” growled the puppy.

“Oooof” groaned DQ.

“Aaaagh!” moaned Jason.

All this from my cane! Over and over again I swung the cane and elicited the reactions, one after the other. It was music to my ears.

“Swish” “Arrrrf!” “Oooof” “Aaaagh!”

“Swish” “Arrrrf!” “Oooof” “Aaaagh!”

She drew a long rattan cane from the tube, and declared, “You!”

“Um, I dunno…,”I began to protest.

“Just stay in your chair.”

She began to cane my thighs. I had not bottomed to canes in a very long time. I did not think I was up for it. I squirmed in my chair.

Seeing my discomfort, Momma Bear quipped, “Or you can find someone else for me to cane.”

So, there was a possible way out. I considered my options. And then came a taxi! There are golf carts at camp that are driven around as taxis by campers. Each camper has to do 4 hours of chores. Driving a taxi is a coveted job. This cart was being driven by Herb. I had met Herb a few weeks before at the Black Phoenix in Philadelphia. I had caned him and he had like it.

Herb, like most taxi drivers slowed down when going past our cabin. There always is some kind of action on our porch to see.

“Hey, Herb!,” I called out.

Herb stopped the cab. “You need a ride?”

“Well, not exactly. Would you like a caning? And I will drive your cab?”

“Sure!” Herb loved this idea and bounded up onto the porch. This was truly a Huck Finn moment for me. But as I hightailed it out of there with the cab, Momma Bear called after me, “I want you to find me another bottom within 20 minutes!” Oops! I was not totally free and clear.

I thought about my next challenge. Driving a cab was certainly advantageous in fulfilling this request. I would shortly know who was where and who was doing what with whom. I picked up a couple from the barn and drove them to their cabin and then picked someone up on the road and brought them up to the dungeon. I then headed over to the white house.

Donna was there in a long cape. She wanted a ride to the pool. “Hop on!” We took off and chatted on the way. By the time we had reached her destination, she had heard the whole story of how I was looking for someone for Momma Bear to cane.

“Melody would love to be caned by your Mama Bear.” Melody is Donna’s partner and her submissive. She is also a heavy masochist and perfect for Momma Bear. I was thinking that was totally going to rock. I would deliver! “But,” Donna continued, “she may be asleep already. She usually wakes up at 5am every day.”

“Well. Let’s go see if she is awake.” I gunned the cab. Uh, um, but there is no “gunning the cab” at camp. No matter how much you put your pedal to the metal, these cabs are slow. Especially up hill. See, this is a real story. Anyway, we drove back up to the top of camp to the white house. Donna’s swim was not happening. I needed her with me to give permission. And she was excited about the idea and had totally bought into my scheme.

We got to the white house and Melody was right there on the porch chatting. “Wanna get caned by my Momma Bear? Hop on!” Melody hopped on and Donna explained the deal. Melody got a miraculous second wind and was ready to play.

We got back to Oink. Herb saw us, stood up, pulled up his pants and came flying off the porch yelling, “I need my cab back!” We got out of the cab and Herb grabbed it telling me, “That woman is nothing like you. She doesn’t know anything about warm-up.” Then he took off.

Momma Bear was pleased when she saw that I brought Melody. I think she was a bit surprised, but she was very happy. Donna and I sat on the porch together and chatted while Momma Bear caned Melody. It was a nice night. I thought about Donna being naked under her cape.

]]> http://www.leatheryenta.com/2008/10/29/im-a-spanking-expert/feed/ 2 http://www.leatheryenta.com/2008/09/08/dont-slam-the-door/ http://www.leatheryenta.com/2008/09/08/dont-slam-the-door/#comments Mon, 08 Sep 2008 20:56:41 +0000 Lolita http://www.leatheryenta.com/?p=977 I’m preparing for Dark Odyssey Summer Camp. Whoo hoo! Camp is sold out. Oink Cabin will be very crowded this year with a great bunch of people. We are not a wild party cabin, nor are we a quiet cabin, but my cabinmates are conscientious of the other people in the cabin. Oink only has one rule: Don’t slam the door!

In June at Leather Retreat, Don Quixote gifted this paddle to the cabin. Of course we had to use it! Our rule had to be enforced several times. The paddle will be back at Oink for Dark Odyssey.